We have had a long, but insanely fast year. The days felt like months, and the months felt like minutes. Now finally things are slowing down. You haven’t taken a vacation because there was nowhere to go. But there is a magical place to go that has been with you this entire time. Come home…
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The Highest you…do you know her?
What would highest me do? No, I don’t mean smash a bag of Cheetos you fucking stoners. We’re talking about the part of you that is self-assured, unattached, brave, honest and has all her needs met. Having a hard time picturing that as a part of you? That’s okay. Know that that part absolutely lives…
I thought this was supposed to get easier..
We are exhausted. There is no thriving through this. We are all struggling. Today, I am feeling it deeply. Whether it was the loss of my job again, or the fact that I just turned 26 something has triggered me, and today I am FEELING it. “You are not deserving of good things.” “Things that…
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Now Loading ~THE~ One..
Relationships. Why are they so important to us? I mean sure, we’re social beings. We feed off connection and feeling wanted, but why do we hold out for these things to come from one special someone? We have tons of people in our lives ready to offer us connection, validation, and fun, but we have…
Loyalty is Bullshit (Boundaries pt. 2)
My whole life I have grappled with this. When someone intentionally disrespects me, or a loved one, I can cut them off in two seconds and feel nothing. Does this make me a psychopath? Perhaps. Cutting people off, whether for forever or just for a period of time has always come easily to me. I…
Helping Without Hurting
How do we show up for those in our lives who are suffering? What is our role when a loved one is struggling? Many times when someone close to us is suffering, we go into fix it mode. How can I lessen the burden? How can I fix it? How can I stop her suffering?…
Boundaries 4 Balance
You may not believe it but, as I sit in my parents living room, struggling to save money during a pandemic, writing blog post that MAYBE 50 people will read, I feel pretty darn happy. Not only am I happy, but I am content. And it scares the shit out of me. Feeling miserable always…
Check yo Attachments
"All Things in life are inherently impermanent. It is our attachment to those things that causes suffering. " - Cory Muscara The purpose of this life is to experience, and experience it ALL. We cannot go through life only experiencing love and bliss. We need to experience heartbreak and disappointment. I mean think about it, would…
It’s only her 4th blog post and she’s getting political already??
It’s Monday which means it’s time for another blog post from your favorite irrelevant blogger. I could not make a post today without addressing the climate of the world surrounding us. YES we are getting political. Getting political is not a choice to me. I wish I could not give a shit about politics, honestly…
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It takes you, to realize you.
I touched on this in my first post Unromanticizing Self Love, but I wanted to get a bit more in-depth, so today we're talking about self-acceptance, also known as self-realization. The goal of self-realization is to shine a light on all parts of ourselves, and see ourselves as whole. We aim to strip away all…
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